“One in Christ”

Romans 15:4-13

12/12/07 - Midweek Advent


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    When I was younger I especially liked the holidays, because those were times when our whole extended family would get together.  We would visit with grandparents, uncles, aunts, and cousins, and it was a peaceful time, full of joy and laughter.  There were never any fights, bickering, or complaining at these reunions.  We just enjoyed one another’s company.  When Christmas came around, I was more excited about celebrating with my family members than I was about getting presents.  If only the rest of the year could have been the same.
    But all of you are members of a family of your own, and you know that life with them is rarely perfectly harmonious.  In fact, speaking from experience, it seems that I got into more fights and arguments with my own family members than I did with people outside of the family.  The people we are closest to seem to get on our nerves the most.  We know each other’s every disgusting, annoying habit and mannerism.  We think we’re doing them a favor when we point these imperfections out to them.  Why can’t they be more like us?  We’re all from the same family, after all!  Why did they turn out the way they did?  Families are the closest bonds we can have with other people, and yet it’s those very family members that we often have the hardest time accepting.  We may bear the same name, but intolerance and strife can drive us further apart than the most remote strangers.  
    In the text for this evening from the book of Romans the Apostle Paul talks about life in another family - the family of God.  Of this family we who are baptized are all members.  We all bear the same Name.  We have all been clothed with the righteousness of Christ.  With His shed blood we were redeemed.  We all eat together at the same Table.  We come together to celebrate, like at a family reunion around the holidays, and everything seems fine.  But every now and then arguments and strife arise between various members, and our heavenly Father must remind us children again to love, accept, and forgive one another, just as Jesus loves, accepts, and forgives us.
    Our Lord wants us to live together in unity.  Jesus prayed for this unity as He requested of His Father that His Church may be one as He and the Father are one.  Psalm 133 reads, “How good and pleasant it is for brothers to dwell together in unity!”  And we are one in Christ by virtue of the fact that He has incorporated us by way of our Baptism into His body, the Church.  The Church is united already by Christ in Christ.  But this unity can be disrupted either by erroneous teaching/false doctrine, or by a refusal to love, forgive, and accept fellow members of the body, our brothers and sisters in Christ.  
    This family, united in Christ, must express its unity both in its confession of the Truth and in its love and acceptance of one another.  You can’t have one without the other.  Today, however, attempts are made at promoting unity using only love as the glue to pull everyone together.  For them, doctrine is a hindrance to unity.  The Truth is unimportant, they say.  “Confess whatever you want.  Let’s just love one another.”  The opposite is also unacceptable, however, when all the right doctrine and the confession of the Truth is there, but there is no love.  Correct doctrine for correct doctrine’s sake is never the goal for insuring that the Gospel is taught in its Truth and purity.  The reason for making sure that God’s Word is confessed in all its Truth and purity is for the sake of the people, that they might come to faith in Jesus Christ crucified for them and receive the full comfort of that Word.  True unity among Christians is only expressed when with one mind and in one accord we confess with one voice what God has said to us in His Word and when we love, accept, and forgive one another as God in Christ has loved, accepted, and forgiven us.  This brings praise and glory to God.
    But showing our unity through confession of the Truth and love for one another is not easy.  Relationships among family members often require hard work, patience, and endurance.  We must continue to fight for the Truth of God’s Word and continue to love one another, even when (or maybe especially when) our brother or sister is very unloving back to us.  The Lord knows this, and so He gives us help.  The help He gives us comes from His Word.  
    Through His Word the Lord works in us the perseverance and encouragement that we need.  You’ve heard that you might be able to divorce your spouse, but you can’t divorce your family.  Sometimes you’d like to divorce your family, but no matter how far away you move from them, you’ll always be related to them.  Sometimes the struggle against false doctrine in the family of God and the unloving attitudes of fellow members make us want to wash our hands of this family.  Sometimes it seems like it’s easier just to give in to the false doctrine for the sake of maintaining peace in the family.  Sometimes it seems easier just to ignore the members who are causing us problems rather than to love, accept, and forgive them.  But God’s Word gives us the help we need to continue to persevere in both confessing the Truth and in loving one another.  It comforts us with the Gospel that God has accepted all of us into His kingdom on account of what Christ has done for us, and it promises us that we who confess the Truth and love one another will live forever with Christ and all His saints when He comes back for us.  The more we hear how the Lord has accepted us, the easier we will find it to accept one another.  
    And how did the Lord accept us?  By suffering and dying for us, by giving of Himself completely for us, by giving up His rights as the Son of God.  Although He existed in the form of God, He did not regard equality with God a thing to be prized, but He emptied Himself, taking the form of a servant.  All that He did, He did for us, for our benefit.  He didn’t think of Himself or live for Himself; He thought of us and lived, died, and rose again for us.  Now, on the basis of His sacrifice for us, God accepts us sinners into His kingdom.  He does not accept our sin; He forgives it.  He does not count it against us.  Yes, He knows that we are still sinners, and He sees our weakness on a daily basis.  And just as parents will discipline their children when they refuse to get along, so He disciplines us so that we will continue to love one another as we ought.  But His love for us never fails.
    As the Lord has accepted us, so we are to accept one another.  Accepting one another will mean sacrificing ourselves, our wants, our desires, our pride.  It will mean suffering and dying to ourselves, living for one another.  It may mean curtailing our freedoms for the sake of weaker brothers and sisters.  It will mean putting up with the scruples of others while not pushing our scruples onto them.  It will mean accepting our brothers and sisters in Christ, while forgiving them their sins against us as Jesus has forgiven our sins against Him.  It will mean loving them enough to instruct them where they err with respect to God’s Word.  Nowadays people have the idea that exposing false doctrine for what it is is unloving.  But since false doctrine steals both Christ and the Gospel away from us, it is most loving to instruct in the Truth with great patience, gentleness, and reverence.  
    The Christmas season is a time when families get together to give and receive gifts.  Here in this place we gather as the family of God to receive His gifts to us in His Word and Sacraments and then in turn to give the gifts of love, acceptance, and forgiveness to one another.  Through His Word, Baptism, Holy Absolution, and His Holy Supper the God of hope fills us with all joy and peace in believing, so that we abound in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.  This hope, joy, and peace spills out from us onto our brothers and sisters, which results in our united confession of the faith and our united acceptance of one another.  And where our unity is displayed in the confession of the Truth and in our love for one another, we bring praise and glory to God who redeemed us with the blood of His Son.  Only in Christ is it possible to be united in this way, and He alone can unite us in this way.  He who broke down the barrier of hostility between ourselves and God with the sacrifice of His body on the cross has also broken down the same barrier that divides us from one another.  In Jesus we have peace with God and with one another.  We are one with Christ and one with one another, one family of God, who will spend eternity together in heaven, rejoicing in God our Savior.  Amen.

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